Thursday, July 16, 2009

An article from facebook

I copied this from facebook. Interesting article about the origins of the pants below the waist.

Sagging is it a "A Way to Display Homosexuality in Prison"?
He's coming down the street with a sparkling earring in his ear, pretty white teeth, maybe a doorag under his sports cap, a fresh shirt maybe overlapping a wifebeater or t-shirt, his shoes are bright white and brand new, and his pants look like they're fresh out of a retail store. He's in popular hip hop gear and wears it proudly. Sometimes he may wear his jeans or khakis with a button-down shirt. He may not wear a cap; maybe his hair is freshly tapered with a Caesar haircut or dreadlocks falling on his shoulders. To me, he represents hip hop and the casual wear of someone who wants to express himself by wearing gear he's most comfortable in. I love hip hop and brothas who can wear hip hop gear neatly; this includes everything from Phat Farm to Ecko to Akademiks. But then he turns around and the outfit and style go down the drain. I look down to see this boy/man's pants hanging under or in the middle of his butt. He pulls his pants up repeatedly because they start to drift down as he walks, and he's perfected that slow dip walk so they don't fall down altogether. I can see the designs and name brand of his underwear and sometimes where the elastic on his boxers or boxer briefs are tucked over his shirt. Suddenly he's not so attractive to me and I walk away with a vicious eye roll.

Sagging pants was never meant to be fashionable. Prisoners wear their pants this low because belts are a popular way to commit suicide by hanging oneself, to hang others, or to use as a weapon in fights. Prisoners are also not allowed to have shoestrings for the same reasons. But there is an even more obvious reason why pants are sagging in prison. If the pants are below a man's bottom, it is to introduce to other men that he is homosexual. As Eazy E once said about women in skirts, "For easy access, baby."


Pastor Dianne Robinson, 64, from Jackson, Florida is the founder of Nanas and Papas Raising Grands Organization and she is helping to start a fight against sagging. She feels it's disrespectful and sometimes the underwear isn't clean. So far, I haven't seen any underwear with stains or unclean, but regardless of it being clean or not, it's disgustingly sloppy. A Dallas school trustee contacted the City Council to see if there could be a ban on this trend and in 2004, a Louisiana lawmaker proposed House Bill 1626, also known as the Baggy Pants Bill. Offenders would be fined up to $175 or given community service. The Virginia Senate suggested a $50 fine on people who reveal their underwear. Although I don't think sagging is serious enough for a fine, I think self-respect itself should be the reason why the "fashion trend" is cut out.

I can understand a person wanting to show off their jewelry. Fiancees have been doing it for centuries. I can understand someone wanting to show off their new outfits. Fashion shows take care of that. I can even vibe with showing off fresh new hairdos, shoes, and accessories. But for the life of me, I don't understand why the under part of underwear does not send a sign to saggers everywhere that these garments should be beneath their clothes. At a pool party, it is normal for people to see swim trunks. In the privacy of your own home, feel free to wear or not wear whatever you want. I think loose and baggy pants are attractive, especially on a man who wears it well. I've never been attracted to tight pants with the appearance of a sock in the groin area. That's just corny. But when did wearing baggy pants have to be so exaggerated? Can't they just be loose fitting but still on the waist? How is it attractive for a woman to see some man's pants sagging so far down under his butt that it looks like there's a private party going on around in his knees?

This trend increased when new citizens came out of prison and were so used to wearing their pants this way that they continued on. You know America loves a bad guy; we can see that in movies and music everyday. So, many young boys and men emulated this seemingly hardcore status. But in the process, they degrade the culture of hip hop (because it has become so common with rappers, and even worse, rappers who don't know a thing about prison or are terrified of going back) and themselves. The irony is that some rappers who really did time, such as TI, are dressing more dapper as they get out. Now how is it that the actual prisoners who were used to wearing their clothes this way are now wearing suits but the boys and men who'd never make it out of jail and would cry at the thought of going are so hell bent on representing this crew? Do women a favor, guys. Pull your pants up. Sometimes your outward appearance can represent something positive or tell a lot about you, such as the attractive man I spoke of in the first paragraph, but other times it can represent something that'll turn women away regardless of how attractive you may be. However, it might turn more men to you, specifically the ones that think they can get in your pants easy, literally. If that is your preference, by no means do I have the right to judge. But if it's not, you're sending out the wrong signals to women.
Sagging Pants: Hip Hop Trend or Prison Trend?



My Sources are Both Men and Women Who I personally know who are in the Prison system now or have been in the past. And Jet Magazine.

Friday, July 10, 2009

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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Snow Storms!

We have been having snow ALL day long. I don't think there has been a break in it at all since at least 9am. We have a couple of inches on the ground and I don't think it is stopping anytime soon. It will be interesting to see if we have school tomorrow.

Lizzie had a rough morning. She needs to admit when she does something wrong and take responsibility for it. She refuses to do so. And so she gets really upset and cries and screams and makes matters worse. I feel like I need to do something to help her, but I'm at a loss for what to do. We get into it at home because of the same thing. I feel like the only way we are going to get through to her is to break her spirit. Which I really don't want to do!!! When she's an adult, this strength will be wonderful. As a child, it is a problem. Sometimes I wonder if I need to try to homeschool her. But, she has to learn to get along in a school setting and with other people. 

I want her to go to the youth program at school. There is a group for 5th graders. She is insistent that everyone will hate her and that she won't have any fun. I told her that she is going no matter what. Even if I had to carry her in over my shoulder. She wouldn't give in. And, I have never given in on something. She has to finish something that she starts. I won't let her quit. Of course, there is only so much that I can do. I can get her there but I can't make her participate.

I'm so tired of it!!! I guess I need to start the search for a therapist for her, again. She needs someone to talk to who can help her acknowledge her emotions and her feelings. I wish she would talk to me, but I know that it helps to talk to someone who has no other connection to you. She needs a Marcy.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Hatchlings

Trying to figure something out. Not working. oh, well!

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

School's back!

So, the family went back to school Monday. Yay! It's only as loud as I want it to be, now.

I'm back to running errands and getting things done. Took the van in for repairs. 
Friday: water pump, trasmission fluid, solenoid parts, serpentine belt, blah, blah, blah. $824. 
Monday: muffler, oil change, fuel filter. $449. 
Van running well having used the majority of the Christmas gift from in-laws: EXPENSIVE!!!

But I went ahead and ordered myself a Cricut on eBay. Got a good price! And have already spent another $200 on a rolling bag and 5 cartridges!! Now, if I could just get some space in my scrap rooms by selling stuff on eBay and making some money!!!

Monday, December 29, 2008

Miss the kids

I finally started missing the kids last night. I love my time away, but I love my family. I've been keeping busy working and DH wishes I would work on my cleaning quite a bit more. I can't believe it is almost 2009. Wow.

Went to see Milk last night. Good movie but leaves you asking what you do that is truly important. I wonder.

Friday, December 26, 2008

Day after Christmas

Nice quiet home time. Went to Troy yesterday afternoon. Rode back with bil and sil. Slept in until 1pm. Taking my time getting to work. Realy enjoying having time to myself. Scott is due home before too long. He is gaming all day tomorrow. Yay!! I love my family but I love my time alone, too. We still have a week of together time. I'm trying to decide if I'm going to start the rock candy before the kids get back. It'll take about a week to make. So, do I start it now and get a head start or do I wait and let the kids see how it starts. I guess it depends how lazy I am!!  Although I am also thinking about making Oatmeal Butterscotch cookies for Scott. And me. Almost healthy, right?

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Eve.

Things were going pretty well until Lizzie had a melt-down because Alex didn't give her a pencil with an eraser. She was off her meds for a week and it has really caught up with her. Time to push it back in her, big time. Unfortunately, Scott got in on it while it was occurring and got really really mad. Alex was crying because Scott scared him. So, then Scott was mad at himself for getting so mad. And he probably said some things he shouldn't. Well, now he is moping around. Sigh. I was already depressed before. Now I have to try to balance him out. Yay, Christmas! NOT!!!

We went to Christmas Eve service, which I really enjoy. He couldn't sing because his cough is still so bad. Which bummed him out. And he was doing his mopy thing. And it isn't like he will actually talk about what is wrong. He made a comment about screwing Christmas up and I barked at him. He hasn't done anything wrong! Lizzie is the one who needs an attitude adjustment. And, welcome to my world!!! I have to go through this with Lizzie two to three times a day. Every day. Scott is lucky he never has to see it!!! Well, time to get presents under the tree.

Friday, October 03, 2008

Another Friday

Here we are on another Friday. Need to be working. Watching Stargate Atlantis. And updating my blog! =) I got to scrapbook a lot this week. Went to Cord on Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday. Of course, I was working on swap stuff. But I finished two of my three swaps. Yay, me! 

I'm almost done with another work project. Everything is due by the 8th and I should actually hit the deadline. What a concept! 

Just finished listening to False Impression by Jeffrey Archer. Currently reading Brisingr (third in Eragon series). Also just finished New Moon which is the second book in the Twilight series by Stephanie Meyer. Also in the process of Spirit Gate (some fantasy book I picked up at the library that looked good. The problem is that the type is small and close together. So it is actually somewhat difficult to read. I think I need to reserve the Large Print version.) I love to read. But I tend to get a little overambitious when I am at the library. Or I reserve a bunch of stuff and it all comes in at once. I never seem to have enough time to read all that I want to read. There are so many "teen" books that I want to read. I look in Lizzie's area and I want to read so many of them!! I read to escape and have fun. I don't like to read non-fiction. Although I am also listening to The Physics of the Impossible in the van.

I love to watch TV or movies on the computer as I work/play. I thnk I multi-task so often that I don't know what to do with myself if I am not entertaining all of my senses at the same time. Sad. I bet Marcy would have something to say about that!

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Cookout

Went up to my parents and had a cookout in the woods. Hot dogs and marshmallows. Yummy. And the kids actually behaved fairly well. I just hate hearing: "we never get to see them! They're the only reason we are up here. If it weren't for them, we would stay in Florida year-round." As if!! The heat drives them here and the cold drives them there. Wah. Anyway. Bad mood. Tired. Going to bed.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Friday

What is it about Fridays? I don't want to do anything but I feel like I have to get all of my "loner" stuff in in one day. sigh. I spent too many hours today reading failblog.com. OMG!! I laughed so hard!!!

Then I started working on scrapbooking stuff, again. Way too much stuff. I have got to get that stuff all put away so that I can actually use my stuff. Not that I really have enough places to put it all. I wish I could sell most of it. Most of the time I just feel too lazy to actually get anything done. 

I'm tired. Go figure. I usually am. 

I have the opportunity to go scrapbook tonight. It seems like it would be pointless. But I can get out and spend time with friends. Or I can stay home with my family. I have so many things to work on. Most of them can't travel well. I really want to get all my finished pages in order. That is a huge task. I have a 20 inch stack of finished pages. To add to 13 overfull albums. The sheer enormity of sorting and ordering the pages by date puts me off.  And, yet, I churn out more pages when I have the chance!! 

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Hunh...

I guess that start didn't go well!!

Here we are two years later. I have no idea if I will actually continue this. I'm not sure about sharing my life with the whole world!!!

We had two days of no power thanks to Hurricane Ike and a cold front. The Hurricane of 2008. Hmmm...

Monday, March 27, 2006

The first day of the rest of my blog.

This is the first attempt at a blog. We'll see how it goes.